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Monday, July 11, 2005

weekends were great!well,part of it...


haslina invited me for dinner with her family.thx dearie...really sweet of u to hav invited me.went off with ayang after dinner since his family's goin home.slacked a while,enjoyed the breeze.thought of catchin fantastic 4 at lido at 2a.m with his frens...but poor baby wasn't feelin too good.comin down with fever.so he decided against the idea at the last minute.we headed home instead.he sounded much better this mornin when he called.i hope he gets well soon...


got a call ard 5+ on sunday mornin...a relative passed away.technically she's my aunt but i call her kak lena cos she's young.or at least she looks young for 38.yeah,she passed away at 38.still so young huh?her children are still young (i dunno their names though...) with the eldest one only in P5.youngest boy is still in P1.quite pitiful...was at her place from 11 in the mornin til almost 5 cos the body only returned from the hospital ard 2.duduk bersila sampai butt & kaki cram seh...kept stretchin & stretchin.
i can feel for the kids...even when dad passed away,i was already in sec 1 but nina was stil in K2. but at least i was much older than the eldest daughter.able to help my mum a lil i guess.but mie said that losin a mother & a father are 2 completely different issues.if one loses a dad,at least the love & care from the mum is still there...almost the case usually,but all 3 of us were close to both our parents so it felt disastrous too at that time.but losin a mum loses the affection & care from parents on the whole.cos the dad has to work doubly hard now to raise his kids & to worry about his house & stuff (like the house loan & all the bills that come along with it),somethin that only a mum is able to carry out.& it's gonna be weird for the dad to stay alone with the maid at home.so i dunno what the father's gonna do with the maid...the world should really celebrate mum's day everyday.cos mums are super...they shuttle from work to home & take care of everythin.i love u mummie...although of course the burden for mie is lightened since there's the presence of the maid & my aunt to help out at that time.
anyway,kak lena died of lupus.she was diagnosed with it before,a few years back & pretty cured i think.but it acted up again about a month ago.god loves her more i guess...though i really pity the kids.


anyway,there's sooo many cookies at home.mie baked it yesterday.& last week as well but that batch was finished.so i've been feedin myself cookies & durians cos abang dan bought them yesterday.had pizza on top of dinner too yesterday...*burp* haha...this house is just too filled with food.ayang said that if he stayed in my house he'd grow fat too...yeah,i'm like always munchin sth.& ice-cream too cos mie's like a total ice-cream fan who'll stock up the fridge with ice-cream once supplies are gone.& there's always like 3 tubs of ice-cream in the fridge.so tell me,how do i stop eatin?haha...willpower i guess.


gotta teach tuition later.i still hav to eat lunch cos i didn't hav my breakfast.woke up late as usual.gotta go cos bibik's callin me to eat oready...tata!

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